Soooo

You know what frustrates me? People, well, women in particular, who refer to themselves as “independent” when what they mean is “selfish.”

And I have my faults. But it amazes me how many women will complain how they attract the wrong type of guy… whatever makes them “wrong.” Like the one who told me all her ex’s hung out too long and kept coming around, and how she’d been proposed to several times. You know what? She caused that. They aren’t all hanging around all of their ex’s. They’re hanging out with her. Or the one who talks about how guys seem to stalk her—because she makes contact and makes a connection, then pulls back ("independence," again).